Ken's Naperville Real Estate Blog : "MY WIFE AND I DECIDED TO GO IN ANOTHER DIRECTION"

"MY WIFE AND I DECIDED TO GO IN ANOTHER DIRECTION"

One of my prospective sellers called me this morning.  We had met on Saturday.  He has a nice home in my farm area, River Bend.

"Ken, I appreciate your time on Saturday, but my wife and I decided to go in another direction with selling our house.  We decided to use another Realtor," he said.

"Hey, I thank you for the call.  I must say, I am a little disappointed, but good luck to you.  If you do ever need anything or have a question, call me anytime," I responded before hanging up the phone.

A little disappointed.  But no more.

We had a good meeting on Saturday.  It wasn't great. 

I can tell when someone really likes me or just sort of likes me.  He was in the sort of category.

And that's OK. 

So he chose another Realtor. 

It was probably a good move.

If the shoe doesn't fit, don't wear it.

Ken

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Comments

Ken --- wasn't it nice they had the respect for you -- enough to call you and really treat this like a business decision??? That's ok --- another one will come around. You must be doing something right in order to attract the clientle that has manners and professionalism??? I think so.

Posted by Patricia Murray (Premiere Plus Realty Co.) almost 4 years ago

Ken- You are right "if the shoe does not fit..." We find that we do not make a connection with every prospect- I have written a few blogs about just the same thing in the past few weeks- It seems that it works out for the best in most cases. I am glad you are doing the Mr Mom thing too. it is time with your daughter that you will never forget! 

Posted by Barbara Carter homes in New Paltz NY Ulster County Real Estate Professional (John J. Lease Realtors) almost 4 years ago

Hi Barbara and Patricia.  Thanks for stopping by.

Things are getting better quickly, I feel.  We are on the right path.

Ken

Posted by Ken Tracy Naperville Illinois Real Estate (Keller Williams Infinity - Naperville) almost 4 years ago

Ken -- Of course, you're right. You won't hit it off with everyone and it's a credit to you that at least this potential client was courteous and respectful enough to let you know.

Posted by Sharon Roark Realtor Extraordinaire in Lexington KY (Re/Max Elite) almost 4 years ago

Ken,

It's great that he called you, I would always ask why they chose the other Realtor you can learn a lot.

All the best!

Posted by Kevin O'Shea, White Plains, NY Real Estate (Coldwell Banker) almost 4 years ago

That's nice they respected you enough to let you know they chose another realtor as opposed to you seeing the listing on the hot sheet ... I really hate when that happens.

Posted by Patrick Lambert ( Hawaii Real Estate Expert ) (ALLY Real Estate) almost 4 years ago

Hi Patrick, Kevin, and Sharon.  This doesn't happen too often.  Odd.  But ok.

Ken

Posted by Ken Tracy Naperville Illinois Real Estate (Keller Williams Infinity - Naperville) almost 4 years ago

Ken, good attitude!  It is rare that the client were upstanding enough to call you.  Better luck next time.

Posted by Tony Cannon, e-PRO & Darcy Cannon, SFR - The C Team (RE/Max Velocity Realty) almost 4 years ago

Hi T+D.  Thanks for stopping by.  It was not meant to be.  Yet.

Ken

Posted by Ken Tracy Naperville Illinois Real Estate (Keller Williams Infinity - Naperville) almost 4 years ago

Ken, Yes it hurts a little when it happens. Sometimes it is a good thing, but you have to let it go and say...next. The next one you will get. Nice they called.

 

jacquie

Posted by Jacqueline Tolstyka, Realtor. Selling Beautiful Northern Michigan (Coldwell Banker Northern Lakes) almost 4 years ago

Ken, Yes it hurts a little when it happens. Sometimes it is a good thing, but you have to let it go and say...next. The next one you will get. Nice they called.

 

jacquie

Posted by Jacqueline Tolstyka, Realtor. Selling Beautiful Northern Michigan (Coldwell Banker Northern Lakes) almost 4 years ago

It's great that he called you, I would always ask why they chose the other Realtor you can learn a lot.

Hi Ken,

I agree with Kevin O'Shea on both of his points.  This sounds like a listing that you came very close to landing.  If you can find out why they went with someone else, it could help you in the future.

Posted by Not Yet Licensed almost 4 years ago

Hello Ken,  I like your phrase "If the shoe doesn't fit, don't wear it."  We are in the people business more than we are in the real estate business and there are so many different personality styles.  I may borrow your phrase sometime.  All the best to you.  

Posted by Deborah Wood (RE/MAX Real Estate Services) almost 4 years ago

Yes, it is always hard to swallow. Another one will come along and who knows this one may come back around in 3-6 months. They must have thought highly of you to call you and let you know without going MIA like some may do and then the next time you drive by their house you see another agent's sign in the yard. Take care!

Posted by Teresa Harris ~ Denver . Lake Norman . Charlotte (Lake Real Estate, LLC) almost 4 years ago

Morning Ken,

Now that man was a real professional, he didn't leave you hanging. We can't be all to everyone, that's just a fact of life.

There will be others and hey, who knows, maybe they will find that they should have given you first shot after all.

Posted by Harold (Hal) Place (A1 Connection Realty, Inc.) almost 4 years ago

Hi Hal, Teresa, Deborah, NYL, and Jacquie.  Thanks for stopping by.

It was good he called.  No worries!

Ken

Posted by Ken Tracy Naperville Illinois Real Estate (Keller Williams Infinity - Naperville) almost 4 years ago

I too appreciate the courtesy call so I wouldn't continue chasing him for nothing.  That's even more hurtful.  You handled the situation well.

Posted by Latonia Parks (Top Bragg Realty, Fayetteville NC, Home of the 82d ABN DIV) almost 4 years ago

Hi Latonia.  Thanks.  Everything is all good.

I will be ready if he needs a realtor down the road.

Ken

Posted by Ken Tracy Naperville Illinois Real Estate (Keller Williams Infinity - Naperville) almost 4 years ago

Ken-You were so right!

How are things going with Keller Williams?

Joe

Posted by Joseph D. Federico Eastern Massachusetts Real Estate (Coldwell Banker Residential Brokerage) almost 4 years ago

Hi Joe.  Thanks for stopping by.  Still figuring my way.  Spending most of my time with my daughter.  Fitting in my real estate.

Ken

Posted by Ken Tracy Naperville Illinois Real Estate (Keller Williams Infinity - Naperville) almost 4 years ago

Ken, That is a bummer. did you ask why they chose to go gin the other direction?

Posted by Shaun Wren (AGENTFORLIFE) almost 4 years ago

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